You Deserve Peace...

Mourning the loss of your children is never easy, especially if they're still living.
This is how millions of silently suffering parents deal with estrangement and alienation every day. Shame from past mistakes, uncertainty of what went wrong and the suspended animation of life in general.
You deserve peace. Here is some help.



Resources

These Are Our Books, Curriculum and Materials.

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"Sorry I Messed Up..."

Sometimes we as parents don't live up to our OWN potential. Our kids watch us flounder in life and sometimes that leaves them vulnerable to the world. We haven't been able to make things "right", and it may leave things in limbo with your own kids. Birdie shares her own journey in estrangement with her own son and the peace that they have in the power of letting each other go.

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Parents, Stop Apologizing!"

Parents need to give themselves grace and reach an inner peace with the decisions that their adult children have made to estrange themselves. The power of letting go as a parent is one of the hardest parts of the parental journey, especially when your child alienates you. However, sometimes Adult Children letting go entails placing blame, for which parents suffer with inner conflict and giving forced apologies. It's time to stop apologizing, let go and give yourself grace.

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Let Them Clothing

A tribute to The Power of Letting Go, "Let Them", is an underlying message of acceptance to that brings comfort Birdie has added her Breathe by Birdie signature to this popular merch.

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Healing Parent Wounds

We raised our kids to the best of our abilities, maybe even with tools our own parents gave us. While they did the best that they could with what they knew we know well intentions nothing if OUR kids are hurt now. THAT'S The generational Parent Wound.

Let's Do The Work!

Most Popular Conversations

Birdie posts and participates in several well-known groups & platforms, here is a few of our Fellow Parents' Favorites that she has shared:

When We Transfer What We Don't Heal #TransferringTrauma

Don't Be Ashamed Into A Shrinking Life #NoMoreHiding

When Adult Children Infiltrate Parent Groups: #WeAreNotYourParents

Healing Isn't One-Sided. It Is For EVERYONE. #CreatingInDentedPans

Birdie Chesson's Journey

February 27, 2022. That was the day that changed Birdie's life forever. The events that happened after that were truly heartbreaking.

Alienated, No Contact, Estranged, Eggshell Walk, Estranged Again, Low Contact...

Through transparent accounting of her own agonizing Alienated, then Estrangement and subsequent RECONCILIATION with her son, she shows you How She "Fixed" Her Relationship With Her Son.

  • She chronicled her entire process. The 5 Stages of Grief, Crying, Healing & Communication. There are videos, books and other resources that SHOW you that ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE.
  • NOTE: Birdie IS NOT a doctor. Everything is based on her own experiences and observations. If you require medical attention and/or need more help than guided prompts and conversation can do, please consult a medical professional. Personal Development helps you shift your thinking to help you make your OWN life's changes.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Here are the most frequently asked questions.

Does Birdie Have A FACEBOOK GROUP?

No. Birdie only participates in Parent Groups on Facebook as a fellow parent.
She does have an Estranged & Alienated Facebook PAGE, with the videos that she has posted in Parent Groups as well as other resources for parents on that Facebook PAGE called Estranged And Alienated Parents Help. JOIN US HERE

Does Birdie Have Any Groups Of Her Own?

Yes! Birdie has a FREE Option on Patreon JOIN HERE with videos posted there as an alternative to Facebook.
In the same group, there is an Exclusive Membership that is $3.00 a month, where there are giveaways and live events and has access to private videos that will not be posted on Social Platforms, like Facebook or Instagram.

What's is Birdie's Profession?

Previous to Birdie's Estrangement journey, she was a Personal Development Specialist with a thriving career as an Author and Speaker. When her estrangement with her son started, shame and sadness brought her and her practice to a screeching halt. As she met others in the same position, she started to take her own experiences and share them with other parents. She slowly restarted her practice, putting her perspective into books and courses.

Birdie has been in the Transitional Guidance space for OVER 25 years. Birdie is not a doctor. Just a Parent that saw her way through; and now as a Parental Transitional Guide, she helps other parents past Parenthood and NOW SO CAN YOU. One of Her Courses She offers is Here.

Birdie does have a lot of free videos but I also see that Birdie has paid books and courses, are there refunds?

There are no refunds for our Online Courses, Digital & Downloadable products or Coaching; however, if you purchase any of Birdie's Books on Amazon, Amazon has a strict 30 day return policy on undamaged and unmarked books.

How Do I Contact Birdie"?

Join Her On Patreon! All of her availability starts there, as well as her mailing list and updates. Again, there's a Free option to join. However, it is her $3 a month membership that offers a messaging option. Join Patreon HERE.
Birdie is also in various Facebook Groups.